WHAT TO EXPECT IN A FIRST TIME SESSION

It does not benefit either one of us if you come to see me with expectations that are different from what I offer you.

So here is a description of the first session for each type of client: Men, Women and Couples. Keep in mind that your actual session will depend on where you currently are in your sex life and in your life. Each person is unique and therefore each session is unique.

Every session and conversation is private and confidential. I provide a safe, respectful space for you to bring up any concern about relationship issues or sexual issues, and to experience healing.

MEN

There are 2 parts to your first session: Reconditioning of the Mind and Reconditioning of the Body. You must be willing to drop old patterns and conditioning. This process is required in order to prepare for the inner journey, and for sexual oneness with your partner.

Please read this entire section, including the “Note”, before you contact me.

1. Reconditioning Of The Mind

We will begin our first session by discussing and addressing certain topics that must be covered before we move on to any of the bodywork.

These are some of the points we will discuss and address:

• What you want to achieve by working with me, as well as your past and present sexual and relationship experience

• The differences between common sex and true, conscious, Tantric lovemaking
• The opposite sex: what she feels, needs, and how responsive she is
• Premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction
• Breaking through energy blocks and healing sexual trauma, abuse, rejection, and emotional wounds
• Intimacy, emotional availability, and fear of sexuality or of sexual interaction
• How to be multi-orgasmic
• What you can do to break the cycle of old unconscious sex patterns and move into a more conscious and satisfying approach to lovemaking – and, you can actually begin to make that shift on your own, without your partner’s participation

This conversation will begin to open a new understanding within you of how to experience and express a whole new dimension in your sex life, and this overflows into all other areas of your life.

1. Reconditioning Of The Body

Most of my clients are surprised at how little they have experienced of their own sexual energy. This whole experience will be very relaxing and powerful. You will have the opportunity to generate your own sexual energy, and to feel your own body in a whole new way.

After our discussion you will lay face up on a massage table with your eyes closed - relaxed and attentive.

• First you need to know that I will be totally present for you, and support and nurture you the entire time I work with your body and mind
• I will teach you to breathe to support health and well being, and your sexual energy
• I will guide you to become totally present, to drop your mental chatter, and begin to sense your own body as the aliveness that it is
• I will place my hands on certain points on your body that may seem unimportant to you, but they conduct energy through your body - the body IS electric and has positive and negative energetic poles that I will activate
• You may feel some emotions or suppressed memories – that is normal and healthy and I will guide you through it and beyond it – you are safe
• Just like the flow of any powerful energy, electricity, water, or air, when the blocks clear out, you will begin to experience the free flow of orgasmic waves coursing throughout your body, and this can go on for some time
• At this point, you are now an orgasmic man, and you will be able to assist the woman in your life to experience multiple orgasms also

Possibly for the first time in your life, you will get to experience how powerful and beautiful your orgasmic sexual energy is, free of premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. This entire experience will give you a sense of the possibilities when you go home and actually make love with your partner!

Note: It is important that you understand that I do NOT offer the services of an escort, erotic massage therapist, or one of the many so-called “tantricas”. I know exactly what they offer, and that is NOT what I offer you. They provide you with a temporary sexual experience, and a strong possibility of feeding your ego. So, if that is what you are looking for, do not contact me. You need to contact one of them instead.

You contact me when you decide that you want to heal, and that you want to show up in your own life, as well as in your intimate relating with your partner, as the beautiful man that you really are.

WOMEN

Your first visit consists of 1 part: Reconditioning of the Mind.

1. Reconditioning of the Mind

We will address the same topics that I address with men, so please read the MEN’s section above. We will also discuss other topics that are specific to a woman who wants to approach sex differently for a variety of reasons.

So, besides all of the topics covered in the MEN’s section above, we will also address and discuss:

• Society’s influence on the woman
• The woman’s role in conscious lovemaking vs. the man’s role
• How to get back to your feminine, receptive nature
• That little orgasm women reach for, compared to feeling full-body orgasmic waves
• What your man needs from you in conscious lovemaking
• What you can do to break the cycle of old unconscious sex patterns and move into a more conscious and satisfying approach to lovemaking – and, you can actually begin to make that shift on your own, without your partner’s participation

Our discussion will challenge much of your current thinking around sex, and will open you to new possibilities. It will free you up from the thinking that keeps you from fully enjoying sex, and it will help to begin the shift necessary for you to move in a new direction.

I personally do not do bodywork on women, so if after our discussion you are interested in Reconditioning of the Body, I refer you to my Tantra Mentor, Shantam Nityama. His Nitvana Bodywork and Phone Bliss Sessions are amazingly powerful for a woman. I have experienced both myself. They will take you to the next step in your sexual evolution. Visit www.nityama.com for more information.

COUPLES

There are 2 parts to your first session: Reconditioning of the Mind for both of you, and Reconditioning of the Body for the man, with the woman present. Please read the entire MEN’s section to get some idea of what your session will be like. Please also read the WOMEN’s section to see the additional topics we will discuss.

I work on the man’s body in your couple session with the woman present, so that she gets to witness this man experiencing his beautiful, powerful male energy. Even though she does not directly receive the bodywork, it is truly a shared experience for the couple, and she will definitely be affected by being there. It prepares you both to approach your next lovemaking session in a whole new way. (And I want to hear about it on your next visit!)

For the woman, I personally do not do bodywork on women, so if after our couple’s session you are interested in Reconditioning of your Body, I refer you to my Tantra Mentor, Shantam Nityama. His Nitvana Bodywork and Phone Bliss Sessions are amazingly powerful for a woman. I have experienced both myself. They will take you to the next step in your sexual evolution. Visit www.nityama.com for more information.